I’ve been working as a camgirl for the past two years and just recently launched my own adult website that is owned and operated by me at www.missbellabellini.com. But I also have a degree in psychology and could register as a psychologist where I live if I decided to go back to school for another year or so and leave the wonderful world of porn behind.
I’m very open with my members and the people I meet on webcam, so most of them know that I’m a few credits short of shrink status. One of the most common questions I get besides what my bra size is, or if I do anal, is whether I’m analyzing my members or using them as some kind of clandestine research project.
Now while I can totally guarantee that I’m not doing research on the perverted mind (because I would hate to ruin a good, fun thing like porn with boring academia), I can’t say that my background in psychology doesn’t help me a lot in my daily life as a cam girl.
For example, many of my favourite customers have fetishes. I have one regular with a foot fetish who loves to spend regular hourly privates with the soles of my feet pointed directly at the camera and zoomed almost all the way in while I tell him how good it would feel to have him slowly suck each one of my toes.
Another guy is too shy to tell his wife that he gets a thrill from seeing women’s legs in pantyhose, so it is easier to come spend time with me to see me stroke the silky tights on my legs and snap the nylon waist band against my skin.
None of my friends are in the adult industry and most don’t have a background in psychology, so I know fetishes like these might sound strange to them. But for me I know that fetishes develop from a natural conditioned response that occurs during adolescence when sexual arousal occurs in the presence of an object, like pantyhose.
People with fetishes might feel shame because society doesn’t accept their special tendencies. And while they might be met with acceptance in a psychologist’s office, a usual therapy session doesn’t usually include an orgasm;) So consider that little ‘perk’ the next time you are considering seeing a professional about a fetish. I can definitely recommend choosing your friendly online camgirl!